Greetings. This blog is not only different from Mae’s previous blogs; it is also primary for women. Don’t get Mae wrong, there are scenarios where men are victims. However, for purposes of this blog, Mae will share scenarios where the females are the victims. Males, you are still welcome to read the blog. Scenario 1: An unbeliever is married to another unbeliever. He, as of this blog, has left her for another woman approximately five times since the beginning of 2021. He also has drug challenges. He recently came back home and money immediately went missing. Scenario 2: A believer (wasn’t at the time) was told by ex wives (notice the plural) on a conference call about the physical and mental abusive behavior of the spouse. She soon realized they were not lying. After staying in the marriage, that involved abuse and  numerous affairs, the spouse finally left her for a woman twenty years his junior. Scenario 3: An out of fellowship believer married a narcissistic unbeliever. After years of verbal abuse and draining her financially (at times), he divorced her for his next victim. Mae knows this is her longest blog yet, but there’s a few more scenarios. Please bear with Mae. Scenario 4: A young lady was held against her will and her husband tried to kill her. You guessed it, she left and went back to him. The physical abuse got worse. She finally divorced him. He was also cheating on her. Scenario 6: While engaged, her then fiancée cheated on her. She married him and he is still cheating. Scenario 6: A young lady has hardly any input on household financial or any other decisions. He constantly belittles her and tells her he is the man. She is mute. When dating, he constantly disrespected her. She married him anyway. Mae could go on and on, but will end with this question, ladies where is your self-esteem? Mae can also relate because as she has said, she is transparent.  May you know that the same question Mae posed to you, she could have posed it to herself some years ago because Mae was (definitely) one of the scenarios.